So sorry to hear this, Amy. It is very difficult. …

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So sorry to hear this, Amy. It is very difficult. A lot of people struggle with guilt and regret after their pet dies. I can appreciate why your situation would make that more pronounced. And then dealing with the shock of what happened at the end and the flashbacks. I hope that in time you will be able to focus on grieving her loss without these other complicating factors. Shailen.

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Sorry to hear this, Maddie. I hope that Betsy continues to recover. Hopefully, when you have her back home, time will do its magic and you will start to have fewer flashbacks or guilt about what happened. It is very difficult to keep them safe 100% of the time while allowing them to enjoy life too. I believe that Betsy knows how much you love her and will not have any bad feelings towards you. Thinking of your family at this time.

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Hi Chloe,

Condolences on your loss. Please share the information in this blog with your mum. She may also find it useful to share her experience with our private Facebook community and if she wants to connect with someone there are some options here.

My thoughts are with your family,


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I am sorry to hear this, Stephanie. No doubt the way in which you lost her is and will make your grief more painful and complicated. I hope that you will find the blogs here and the information on our main site of value. If you are on Facebook and are not a member, please join our private group here. The group is full of like-minded pet carers who will understand and support you. The group is international and so there is always someone there to listen, day or night. Thinking of you at this very difficult time. Shailen.

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Thank you for your comment, Stephanie. It is good to know that the site has provided you with value during a very difficult time. Shailen.

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If you are on Facebook, please join our private group. It is such a lovely and like-minded community for empathy and support now and in what is to come. Go here.


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Sorry to hear this.

The most immediate and best source of support that we can suggest is to join The Ralph Site private Facebook group. 24/7 support from pet carers who understand. Please consider it.

Thinking of you.

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