Comment on Life after euthanasia for bereaved pet carers by cynthia.

I knew a neighbor who was sometimes very abrupt and not friendly, but who loves his Cocker Spaniel, Buddy. I’m an extrovert and always acknowledge people I encounter. I had not seen Roger for some time and one evening I saw him walking at night holding a leash but no Buddy. He told me that he had had to put Buddy to sleep, perhaps it had been cancer? He was concerned because he had also lost a brother but that the grief over losing Buddy was so much more. I’m not an especially wise woman and often wish I could retract sometihng I’ve said but I believe I helped Roger and hope it may help you. The relationship we have with our animals is so pure, unlike the complications with humans. Our animals love us without placing restrictions or conditions and we return that love. People, on the other hand, no matter how beloved are always a mixed bag. I have lost family and still cry for those losses, but the loss of my horses and dogs is an especially bitter pain because it is a decision I make for them.

I am nearing 80 and no longer able to care for a new horse or a new dog, but I hold memories of those past close to my heart and shed tears now and again for every one of them, and myself. Blessings to you.